This passage is especially for you, GIRL. I believe you can easily do the translation via the help of Google, there's NO SMEARING in these passages, do not worry. If you were the girl I mentioned in this letter. Please take good care of yourself, good girl. I wish you and my family all the best. What you heard from my brother are only half-true, you are obviously misled by his false imagination and news. I forgive both of you since we had little chance to communicate and clarify, and you two also refused to reveal your true thoughts. This is the best I ca and my familyn do for my family and you. Hope you have a bright future and worth living life.
This is a long letter, I am writing this because I want to know what you truly think. I am not sure if this would be properly display on the facebook mail, so I attached a pdf version as a backup plan for you. If you can't read it correctly or you want to ponder on it, just print it out.
Since I don't use facebook as my primary news source, I chose a more reliable way to communicate with you---that is, email. I don't have time to communicate with you since Feb.
My younger brother has known you for quite some time. Everyday, he spends hours and hours chatting with you. I am not blaming you, but you obviously have a choice not to chat with him. I will explain why you shall not.
He had obtain some tough health issues ever since you met him, and I am quite sure you are the one that contributes these issues to him.
He had :
Ok, Let me explain what you has caused ever since you met him.
- bone spurs on his shoulders, and probably on his neck
- the dry eye issues. Aka "Keratoconjunctivitis sicca"
- the OCD. Aka "Obsessive-complusive disorder" . It's a hereditary, psychological disease. Some of my relatives on my father's side, my mother, and all four of her children, including me, have this disease. We need proper care and medicine from certified doctors. The only person who takes the therapy is me, so I am quite familiar with all these. Others refuse to see the doctors. And I can firmly tell you that your online typing chat with him is only making the disease far worse. I remember you said you had been in some psychological courses back in college? I hope you understand the importance of professional options from authority doctors---the top psychological doc in Taiwan: Dr. M.B. Lee http://www.ntuh.gov.tw/en/PSY/physician/MingBeen%20Lee/Home.aspx
- Worse grades ever since then. Now he's going to graduate from college. He still had no realistic point of view on the job perspective and the real world in Taiwan. (That's a quite normal and bad situation here) He had always mentioned you telling him the greatness and the suckness of Vietnam. I wish he had a realistic understanding on where he's going to live and work, not where his girl is going to live and work.
- NO wealthy family and brothers to buy him luxuries, cameras, or a set of free Diablo 3 that comes with well-equiped characters.
- false imagination that he is actually dating with a girl. NO, HE IS NOT. THIS GIRL HAS NO THING CLOSE TO BE A GOOD CHOICE.
If nothing improves in the following days, I would publish this letter on my facebook and blog, which might draw some reasonable attention from everywhere. I would not exclude the parts mentioning prostitution, which is also a good part of this letter and I believe, people might feel awakened how exploited sex workers are, which is a good thing in order to change their miserable condition.
- He has spend numerous hours sitting in front of the computer just to type. This only makes his spurs condition worse.
- Since he has to watch the monitor, his dry eyes and eyesight got even worse. He had not dry eye issues before he met you. I am quite confidently said his dry eye issues come from the online chat with you. He wants to chat whether it is on the laptop, a cell-phone, or even when he's about to sleep. He is currently in medical treatment and the doctor asks him not to overuse his eyes in front of any of those monitors. You obviously make his condition worse.
- I sincerely ask you to stop, or at least, ignore his indulgence on internet chat. This would worsen his OCD and his health condition. If you want to contact him, here's an alternative: try a voiced-talking app like Skype or others. Just don't let him overuse his eyes and his back. I believe you might have a smartphone or headphone that works on a PC. This would be more efficient.
- I don't see the good of it, even after months of conversation, thousands of hours on these. It only does harm to him rather help him realize the real job perspective here. (Or anywhere he wants to work) All day long, he has been nagging about he could spend little in Vietnam and become a king there. What's this? A person spends tens of thousands of New Taiwan Dollar in college just to work as a dish washer with minimal wages, and take the meager earning to Vietnam to be a "temporary King" ? You've brainwashed him with the greatness and the suckness of Vietnam, now it's time to confess your intention to him and to us.
- My younger brother earns his humble salary from his humble works, whether it is washing dishes, standing on the street corner to hold the ad bar. He does not have a rich daddy or younger brother to support his expensive camera, nor does he capable of being a prostitute. Has his future wife or girl friend ever given him some realistic point of view on this world---especially the world he lives in, instead of hers. He can't not work as a young woman to earn easy money from men. He does not possess enough knowledge to work as a professional engineer. He does not have a rich family to keep him years in the house just to let him play Diablo 3 or online chat. This is a problem, and I believe some girl with the same problem would do any help to him.
- And in which way do you think you are actually dating him? To typing with him five hours per day? For how long are you going to do this to him? Ten years? Twenty years? What would happen in the end that you never really take serious thought on him? Do you ever think of you will ever married him or moved to Taiwan? Do you ever think he would move to Vietnam and join a Communist country that can not directly link to the outer world? Do you think one would ever marry a former sex worker? Please confess your true idea to me and to us. This is not dating, this is cheating.
You are allowed to keep in touch with him, but please, I wish you to choose a more efficient way of communication, Skype in speaking, for example.
This is not a threat or warning, this is simply a notification.
If you do not response formally, I would consider publish the name of the mentioned girl in this letter. I believed this may draw more attention to her fellow workers in her condition, hopefully this will give people more awareness of the dark world.